Me: I think arguing is like tug-of-war. One person pulls one way and the other pulls the other way, and you try not to get pulled across the line. But what if someone just drops the rope? Then you are not tugging anymore and you don’t get pulled across the line, either. It just ends.
Husband: Yeah, but if you let go, the other person falls down.
Me: You just have to be the one to let go first.